Diet…
March 24th, 2010 by sugig
“I can resist anything, except temptation.”
So wrote Oscar Wilde hundreds of years ago, during the repressive Victorian era.
If there’s one thing that time hasn’t altered, it is human beings’ desire for the unattainable and the forbidden.
Eve herself made that clear, when she reached out to grasp that luscious and oh-so-sinful piece of fruit hanging in the Garden of Eden.
So, how many of us suffer from the Eve complex?
We all begin our diets full of the best intentions, preparing ourselves for the dark, lonely road of pious self-denial, when suddenly, we have a crisis of conscience.
Picture the scene.
You stroll casually into your local supermarket, armed with a mental list of spinach, quinoa and water chestnuts, when you hit the confectionery aisle.
Rows upon rows of gaudy, shiny wrappers seem to call out to you softly,
hypnotising you with their multicoloured designs.
You fall helplessly under their spell, you are intoxicated and before you know it, you’re crouched in aisle seven in the foetal position, scoffing yourself with more indecent enthusiasm than Augustus Gloop, while the shambles of failure tumble all around you in it’s many glittering paper forms.
The sad truth is that as soon as we decide we have to deny ourselves something, we start to crave it desperately.
The reason diets don’t work is because they are initiated with a feeling of ‘loss’ in mind. When we feel we are losing something, we feel the need to compensate by defying ourselves, by rebelling against our healthy decisions and destroying our well-laid plans.
What we need to do to make a diet successful, is not to think of it as a diet at all. Choose another phrase. “Making better food choices” isn’t quite as catchy, but it comes from a more positive base. Or if someone asks you why you’re not opting for your customary lump of Death by Chocolate cake, you could respond with “I’m on a do-it” and a complacent smile at their bemused countenance.
When it comes to exercise, set yourself realistic goals. Setting the alarm at 5am to stagger down the road in a wild attempt to emulate Linford Christie will do you no favours. Instead find something fun you actually enjoy doing, something that can preferably done with a friendly volunteer, so that even if you do look like a berk trying to stay in step with the Tango King of Argentina, you’ll have somebody sympathetic to laugh along with.
So the next time your thinking of fitting into that cocktail dress for the work do, think not of dieting as a dreaded chore, but as a wonderful opportunity for gain.
Gaining in confidence, gaining in self-worth, anything but gaining in inches.
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