Financial Planning for our children
November 30th, 2008 by sugig
Whether we offer financial aid to our children very much depends of their age and what type of financial aid is involved. Parents can offer financial aid to our children when they are school age by way of giving them just enough amount of pocket money for food. It is wise for parents to offer financial aid by investing in their children’s education, savings and insurance.
As much as we parents love our children immensely, we should avoid overindulging them with material things prematurely, we would avoid splurging on them openly. This does a lot more harm than good to our children.
Have you ever witnessed children from wealthy and well-to-do families where their parents overindulge them with material things when they were young and then continued to support them financially well into their adulthood? Many of these children are so used to having an overblown budget that they really have no clue on how to limit their wants and their spending patterns. Habits that have been formed from early childhood are very difficult to change. These children are pampered all their lives, have been given all the luxuries whenever they ask, have not learnt how to control their wants, how will they ever be able to manage their own finances when they start to work?
What happens when the parents continue to offer financial aid to their children? What happens when the parents grow old and are unable to earn their keep any longer? How are the children going to handle the sudden drop in finances? The children will really suffer shock when reality sets in and they no longer have any financial support. Perhaps, there is not even any money left to pass an inheritance for the children later on.
As the sayings go, “We need to be cruel in order to be kind”.
If our children are already working adults, then we should not be offering any financial aid. It is wise and beneficial for our children to have to earn their own keep and to operate within their budget monthly. Why is this better than offering financial aid? Well, for the simple reason that if our children are forced by circumstances to spend within their budget and to manage their own finances, they will learn this critical life skill naturally. No amount of teaching and words can educate them better than real life experiences. When they are used to careful spending and can easily survive within their earning capacity, then they will be financially sound.
In conclusion, if we do have some accumulated wealth, it is best to let our children wait to inherit it. With all the life experiences and knowing that our children are ready, when they do inherit a fortune later, it will be a bonus to their already healthy finances. They will truly get all the financial aid and inheritance at its best.
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